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Gwyneth's avatar

"We are shut up in schools and college recitation rooms for ten or fifteen years, and come out at last with a bellyful of words and do not know a thing."

- Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Síochána Arandomhan's avatar

Great article. I have a lot of conflicting (confused?) feelings about this. I 💯 agree with you that it is necessary to have real skills and interests not just credentials. Even apart from making money, skills and interests keep life interesting. One of my “New Year’s Resolutions” is to get better at sewing. I already get a great deal of satisfaction out of making beautiful crocheted items (a skill I learned as a pre-teen: I’m now 45).

I have a university degree but feel closer to my parents’ working / middle class roots than not, most days. I suppose my husband and I have white collar jobs, but we work directly with the public, so it’s pretty gritty at times. At this point in life I’m not sure what story to tell my (still young) children. We started saving for their education when they were 2 weeks old, so they will have money. Do they aspire to get several university degrees? Do they learn a trade? I didn’t marry till I was 30 and we struggled to have children after that….I will be honest about that too. Most of my university friends never had children at all. I think about Mary Harrington’s point where she said the woman she knows with the best work life balance is her hairdresser: sets her own hours, unlikely to be replaced by AI. Whether or not that statement is completely accurate, it gets at some of the complexities one has to consider.

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